Hes just not that into you...

I went and saw the movie "hes just not that into you" last night with Bonnie and Katie. I liked it, it was a cute movie. I did kind of feel like slitting my wrist after though. Bonnie said it left her with a feeling of hope, it just left me depressed. As I was sitting there watching the Character GiGi I realized I have done many of the things she "did wrong". Like obsessing over the guy because he isnt calling or analyzing even little thing he says or does. I had read the book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo years ago and thinks its great. I think its one of those books you should read at least one a year during the "SINGLE" years. It tells you all the things you know and should be doing but dont always do. Like if hes not asking you out on dates...hes just not into you. The book is set up in different chapters and it tackles different scenarios ....if hes not calling, if hes not dating you, if hes not kissing/sleeping with you..... The movie is basically set up the same way it just shows you different relationships. I did like it and will probably own it someday. It did show that women do the same thing...play games. I would recommend the book to all girls and guys that are in the dating scene or in an relationship that they arent sure about. The movie was cute but it COULD make you a little depressed so beware. So in the end after reading the book or seeing the movie you have to decided if "are you the exception...or are you the rule?"